Wednesday, 11 July 2012

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                            PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT
-- AYUSH GAUR

Personality is defined as the enduring personal characteristics of individuals.
The world is not devoid of talent and that the simplest of persons also have legends to share – many hugely interesting and worth recounting.
Internalizing the experiences gotten from others provide good incremental learning progression, affording a healthy opportunity to absorb positive notes for building up a well rounded personality. Personal enrichment comes from imbibing the best from others, rather than from blowing one’s own trumpet.

Grasping personality traits from the beings of applauded social purview is a way to go through a colossal change in the personality. There must be some new emerging personality evolve out of what exist after receiving inspiration from the scions.
To amplify or ameliorate the personality, we should perceive a role model for our life and it creates anew form of energy which provides transition to achieve a great scrutiny to one’s life.

No one wants to be in the company of the person who keeps harping about his laurels. Such people are not good listeners. Their restlessness to shift over to their own story being overpowering gets exposed during the course of a social conversation.
We should be free from the egoistic ‘I’ syndrome and open our hearts to cater a way for listening and understanding others also. Individualism is not a failing, it provides healthy distinctiveness. It is a positive trait that provides sustenance for achieving personal excellence and in charting life on one’s own terms. But it does not mean that we have a paradigm shift from the social reality to individualize personality.

As far as we consider our personality, it is the agglutination of the aesthetical, philosophical, practical, social and spiritual principles.
Interaction with others and shifting the tone of your conversation with different temporal situations, make you delighted one in the memories of the others.

Classifying natural personality and gradually receiving social traits define the entire system of personality formation.
The atmosphere of your social up-bringing and professional dynamism also shapes personality of yours for the induction to a new emerging leader.

Personality development is a persistent and incessantly encratic phenomenon of taking one’s to a new life of ever changing and ever lasting world. It encroaches the negative aspects of internal abhorrence and creates a true source of fostering believe on the positive aspect of unfurled life.

What a person achieve depends upon the credibility of his personality which is entrapped with ills and odds situations and the variable and inconsistent human demeanour to which you have to interact. Personality must evolve a person who depicts no sign of attitude and pride for his own gratitude and benevolence.


          “Don’t complain or criticize be constructive be contributing be considerate”
              “Success usually comes to those who are too busy to be looking for it.”

Wednesday, 16 May 2012


                                                                Mother of pearls

One day a valley asks her mother
Why does all people call you river?
River announces with emolliation
‘My work is to fill exfoliation’
The river further says –
I join two poles having two role
One is birth and another is soul

Imagine me without water
It’s like creature without creator.
I give my love to the beings
Who live long on this planet scenes.

I am the mother of all those pebbles and cradles
By listening not only children but live fables.
I am the progenitor of veggies and corals
Teaching to live together as morals.

My boisterous corners are symbolic
As they show the life is idyllic.
A lonely drop of water in grief and pain
My heart’s ache, shudders and I get tame.

My destiny to the ocean is not superflous
As I take all my children’s crux.
Not biased in treating my streams
Creating currents to redeem my kins.

Flood is my emotion of jignostic blithe
As new offspring come in my life’s trip.
Though my pleasure sometimes create havoc
Even in this disdain I give life’s claim.

Drought for a season leads my life without reason
As my drops do not comes to celebrate the fission.
My depth of heart sequesters all the secrets
As a mother loves to keep hide her children’s demerits.

Anything which I gobble goes inside my womb
Where it relish my flourishing song.
I teach them lesson to survive in thrive
When I will go back to my emerging site.

My duty is to take the particles in my lap
To take them from conception to clear fact.

So I am concern with full zest
That my role is clear of a nurture in fest.
                                                                                   - Ayush Gaur